16 May 2006

Kol Yisrael Arevim Zeh Ba-Zeh...

but do we act like it?

More on the saga of the down-on-his-luck fellow yid that the community doesn't seem to care about. Quick recap... eight months ago, he broke his back. He has been out of work for nine months and recently kicked out of his apartment. Some nights, he resorted to sleeping in his car. Others, he has been depending on the couches of strangers and friends.

Well, cool yiddish papa (cyp) came through with his own appeal letter. He made his own contacts in our community. Tomorrow, "broke"-in-back-not-"broke"-in-spirit (bibnis) has lined up a potential interview with a local kosher caterer, an appointment with a social worker from a chesed organization, and at some point, he may be getting space in the Jewish shelter. Before all this, people avoided bibnis due to his inability to "fit in" (we live in a generally black-hat neighborhood and he is a kipa-s'ruga wearing, rock music-listening MO type). bibnis is not seeking handouts, he wants a steady job and a clean, reasonable place to live. cyp made a point to not mention specific names, not even his own.

It reminds me of RaMBaM's levels of tzedakah: the highest being that one should help one so that they are able to help themselves. (For the flip side of "give a man a fish/teach him to fish", go to Esther's blog, Life and Debt in Ohio.) Eventually, I will learn how to insert links with the space-saving "click here" I see on other people's blogs.

4 comments:

  1. CYP actually did exactly what I talked about. He didn't just tell "bibnis" suggestions of where to go for help -- since we both know that this effort on bibnis' part has failed. Instead, CYP actually got involved in the situation to get assistance for this person. And this will, in the long term, help him to continue to find success, G-d willing.

    (On a lighter note, I see we're doing the initials thing now. DH wishes that his parents hadn't changed their last name because his initials used to be BMW.)

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  2. [CYP actually did exactly what I talked about. He didn't just tell "bibnis" suggestions of where to go for help -- since we both know that this effort on bibnis' part has failed.]

    This is a sign of growth for cyp b/c he is the "king" of the suggestions. It is a new concept to be "proactive" with helping someone (w/o me nagging him).

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  3. Anonymous29/9/06 15:43

    Keep up the good work
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